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According to Wikipedia, “the orgasm gap, or pleasure gap, is a social phenomenon referring to the general disparity between heterosexual men and women in terms of sexual satisfaction—more specifically, the unequal frequency in the achievement of orgasm during sexual encounters.”

How many times do you truly orgasm during sex with your partner? Read more

When I started dating again after my divorce, I went to buy condoms. It was horrifying. I felt like an embarrassed teenage boy. Read more

This is an excerpt from my Girlfriend’s Guide series that appears on, JustBobbi.com. Read the full Girlfriend’s Guide to Sexual Health here. Read more

Did 2020 have you feeling a little off? Without a dedicated office space, your days probably lacked a work-life balance. Maybe you were overwhelmed with parenting duties 24/7 — hello, virtual learning! Read more

If you were to need any further encouragement to love on yourself right now, here it is: studies show that sex and self-pleasure are an essential part of optimum health. Read more

If I had a dollar for every one of my clients who ticked the ‘low energy’ box on their intake forms, well, I’d have a lot of dollars. Read more

If you clicked into this story, you only want the juicy parts right? A male’s point of view of what it’s like dating in your 40’s.  Read more

The vagina is like an intricate snowflake in all of its unique perfectness: each one is an original work of nature’s art. It is the most wondrous, magnificent feature of the female body, or any body for that matter. Read more

I finally got the courage to start dating about 6 months after I separated from my husband.

We hadn’t filed for divorce yet … but I knew I needed to get out in the dating world. Read more

One of the things that hit me really hard from my separation and subsequent divorce was that a very good friend of mine knew about my husband’s affair. Read more

Wow. I am speechless at the response from last week’s post on divorce after 40. I received mountains of emails, texts, and DM’s not only from people I know, but more importantly, from many women whom I have never met. Read more

I’ll confess: I’m a meat eater. I love a good pork belly, but I consider myself very healthy—I normally eat along the lines of Paleo, and I rar​ely, if ever, eat processed foods. Read more